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DesperateinVA  

Financially sinking

What's on my heart and mind today? Stress! It looks like I will no longer be able to stave off sinking financially. I have a choice to pay my mortgage...if I am able...or pay the electric bill and buy groceries and gas for my job. Then the cycle starts over. I am trying to get the creditors to give a month or two grace just so that I can get the funds stocked to pay. I hate being in this state and never thought I would be. One month means forever to me. If anyone knows a way out without selling my soul, please let me know.
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royp  

ready to lose everything!

My wife went out for close to a year when she hurt her hand. I have just got a green light from the cancer I had which was right after my wide had to be out of work again for her gall bladder. We have had trouble with things going down at home and the van breaking down. We are now both working but the damage is done as we are in the whe and days away from losing our home. We have two children and need help. I will swallow my pride and ask for the sake of my family. Please help as once the over due bills are gone we will be back on track. Thank you and god bless.
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sjh81  

Rent Money and money issues

I don't know what to do . We need 1500 to pay our rent. Its actually a total of 3 months. I want to pay it but I don't have enough money. I stay at home with my daughter because I have noother choice. My husband and I have one car to share. I apply online everywhere I can with the scheldule alotted to me and have yet to find work. My husband makes about 450 biweekly and its not enough. Unemployment is gone because I've been at home for 5 years now and the state hates us as they have consistently denied my food stamps and aid application. My water bill payment arrived a day past the grace and they turned off the water so I had to pay $120 to get it back on, that's double the amount of the actual bill and of course with summer my power bill keeps getting higher.

The finicial strain brings issue into my marital life as we are both so stressed out. To top it off my in laws are always involved because they own the mobile home we live in but we pay the lot rent so every late or unpaid notice goes to them and so we have them on us constantly, without any offering of help just a complete lack of understanding.

Don't know what to do...
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Renterinc  

Renters Association

Do you need help with rent call on us today
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sneakers  

Help Needed

Starving due to CA cutbacks on disability, need food because CA cut back food stamps for people who get SSI, I get fourteen dollars on SSI which disqualifies my granddaughter and I from getting any help with food. My granddaughter is a special needs child which requires trips to Childrens Hospital on a regular basis and has mental difficulties and has to go to psyciotrist and theropist, is on medications that help to stabelize her. Between rent, car payment, electric, gas and phone, plus insurance on the car we have no money left. I can not work due to a stroke in 2005. If there is anyone who can help us please let us know. Gift card for grocery store, help with finances or gift card for gas to transport her.God bless and thank you in advance. My email is: sneakersjohnson@att.net
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Tommyle93  

Need Financial Help Even 100 dollars makes a BIG difference PLEASE

Hi everyone, im a single father that has to take care of three beautiful girls.
I just got out of INS custody & didn't get deported to Vietnam. But now, my
wife is in custody, and i just got out and im unemployed. She's been in custody for
about 3 months now. And i fear she will be deported. I wont be getting my
paper work to get a job until June. I have no where else to go. Please help
the kids if you dont want to help me. They're 4, 8, and 15. Please. We're
about to get evicted in March ):

If someone is out there and can help me, please dont hesitate & email
me at tommyle93@gmail.com
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Harry C  

Help with financing a simple place to live. A place where I can grow my own food and call my own.

I am 50yo male looking for an opportunity to have my own place and quit pouring rent away. Due to medical problems and family problems, my credit is screwed. I always pay my rent on time - I am always loved by whatever place I live. I am a nice guy, honest and sincere.

My desire is for someone to finance me a place to live - nothing spectacular I will repay. I live in the New Orleans area but thing seriously about moving to Ashville NC if I can find the resources to do so. I am disabled due to having both hiv/aids and chrons diseases.

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sylvi  

HELP ME FOR THE SAT

I have wrote a post for the same problem few months a go. I will told you the story, shortly.

I was the best student of my city at the time I was graduated from senior high school. Unfortunatelly, after giant earthquake (that was happen when I was in senior high school) my parents became so poor because we lost our home and nd almost everything. After that, my father was suffering parkinson.

My graduation certificate was arrested by the school because of some tuition problems I have arrear. Looking for a job without graduation certificate was so hard. After almost 3 years collecting money, I can pay my tuition and get my certificate of graduation. 

I really want to continue my education. Unfortunatelly, state university in my country do not accept mature student (more than 19 years age). I was born at 1988, and I will be 23 years old net year. Harvard university offers international student need-based tuition for excellence student candidate. I can fullfill all requirement except for the SAT. I live in small town and SAT only helds once a year in 3 big cities that was far from my town. I was failed because I can not collect enough money. I do not want to give up.

I will try next year (2011). University of oregon also give scholarship. Both of, needs SAT score. I have measured that I will need 315USD. Here, I ask you a help. I am looking for any donation whatever the amount is, I will really appreciate is. I am good in draw and some arts. If you can donate me with some requirement of works as payment, I will take it. If you can give me any suggestion, I will really appreciate it. Thank you so much.

For contact: putrimiracle@ymail.com



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sherryberrys  

How we are doing

I haven't been on in a while, life has been steadily been throwing us curve balls. We are still in much need of help. Justin has spent most of the last three months in and out of the hospital. Things just seem to go downhill at a slow pace. If you can listen to that song by Miles Syrus The Climb. That's how I feel about life in general. I still am asking anyone who may be able offer any type of help please contact me. my email is slvance3@gmail.com THANK YOU SO MUCH

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agee  

grants

i went on as ite i got from here i think..... being challenged and looking for help..  financially i was not in need or the mood to be overly bothered by a company called irs.org ifelt mislead they wanted money 59 a month a duh i dnt have that..

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distressedgranma  

About distressedgranma

I can't believe I am doing this. It just seems that I need to talk to someone. Even if they don't answer.  I am a young granma(that's what they call me). I have tried to do right by my children, and now find that I am in a terrible financial crisis. With all the help that I have given I have gotten behind on all of my bills.  I tried to get a loan but my credit is really bad. Not that I don't pay my bills-I do-I just haven't been able to catch up. Banks don't lend to people like me-I am on disablility-and payday loans are outrageous. Gotta go-the youngest grandchild just woke up. Thanks for listening.

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robint  

About robint

I am looking for some legitimate short term loan help.  I have been scammed over and over again.  I am so close to getting my house payment caught up.  I have roughly $3600 of invoices that will be coming in anyday.  We also have weekly income, and some items that could be used as collateral.  As with so many other people out there, our credit score went from the 700's to the 500's practically overnight.  The market is picking up for us and we have been working hard to get back on our feet.  My husband is working away from home and it is killing him to know that he is not seeing his daughter grow up.  How sad to loose our house, when we are so close.  Sorry, getting very emotional typing this.

We need $2100 by 3/31/10. Any legitimate responses, leads, offers are greatly appreciated.

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ScottD  

About ScottD

This is my desperate cry for help. I'm a 25 year old male fulltime-student from Houston who recently recieved a medical disharge from the Air Foce. I lost my 18 year old brother due to a car accident and my parents was laid off their jobs. We have up to this point been leaving off my severance pay but now are in financial ruin. My parents put their life savings into remoldeling our house to make it accesible for my brother when he got out of the hospital...he was supposed to make a full recovery. I feel really selfish in asking this but I have no other choice. I am in great need of seeing a dentist so that I may recieive treatment for periodontitist (Gum disease). I am so afraid of loosing my teeth. If anyone can help with geeting me in contact with a pro bono dentist or someone who can help finance this it would mean the world to me. I hate my smile as it is I need alignments but I don't no what I will do if I loose my teeth. I never smile and feel really ashamed. This has added to my depression.

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kenny's cab  

About kenny's cab

My name is Kenny I have been employed as a taxi driver for the last 20 years I would like anyone to help me  with start up money to start my own cab company I already most everything I need I have a buisness plan and know how much everything cost in details.

 

I also have buisness that gives me a income now my cell phone number is 717 433 3610 ask for kenny

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8duke8  

About 8duke8

        Hello. My name is Steve, I'm 46 years old, married and I have 2 teenage kids. I couldn't believe that there was a website like this one. A friend at work told me I should try it out, as a possible answer to my issues.

         I was in a workplace accident in 2005. My neck was broken, back broken in 5 places, cracked sternum, collapsed lung, my left leg was amputated below the knee, I was in a coma, and from the date I went into the hospital, to the time I was released from rehab was approx. 7 months. A great portion of rehab was spent gaining back muscle mass, because when you lay still for months on end, you lose muscle mass. I lost 70lbs of muscle mass, so it was quite a treck back to the real world. I now suffer from post tramatic stress disorder, according to my Dr.

          After my hospital stay and rehab, I felt grateful to be alive. I was also grateful for the fact that I lived in a country where my medical expenses were paid for. With my extensive injuries, I would no longer be able to do what I used to do, which was running heavy machinery. My back just would not tolerate it. But, I was alive and had a wonderful wife and 2 great kids.

          I've worked since I was 13, and never minded working. I think we are designed to work and earn our keep. I thought to myself, I will just have to be re-trained at something new. Excited about the prospect of an unplanned career change, I started looking at school, online courses, or new trades. That ended very abruptly. School aint free, and my WCB payments abruptly ended about 8 months after rehab. WCB Alberta, does not pay out a pension, regardless of how serious your injuries are. I enquired about money for school. Not a hope in hell!

         With no money coming in and only enough in the bank to survive a few more months, my wife and I decided we would have to sell our home to cash in on the equity. We did just that and came away with about $30,000. Quite a nice chunk of cash I will admit, however with my wife, who by this point has started working, only capable of earning about $1200 a month, that chunk of cash wont last long with 4 people to feed. So, we budgeted. The money lasted 2 years.

          We have since, moved from Alberta back to our home town in B.C. where atleast the cost of living is cheaper. When our savings ran out, we literally had no choice but to rack up the credit cards. Not for holidays, or jewellery, or entertainment, but for food, rent, utilities, kids school expenses and basic clothing. Nothing frivolous

           So, here we sit, with our $17,000 credit card bills, $850 a month in rent, life ins payments, food bills, blah blah blah. Just like everyone else. I now work as a night clerk for a small motel and make about $1800 a month, and my wife makes about $1000. We survive, simply because I know how to budget.

          All that said, I have a plan. It's a business plan.  

          Here's a brief description of my business ideas. I make, and have been making for about 25 years my own smoked meats, sausage, salami, cured hams, bacon.... I also make a hot smoked candied salmon, that everyone I know goes wild for. I started selling my salmon at flea markets and craft sales, and actually was starting to make money. It wasn't long though, before the Canadian food Inspection Agency put an end to it, because I need to have an inspected facility. I looked into it, and although I know how to meet their requirements, I cannot afford it. I decided to research the market, and sent out free samples of my product. I recieved amazing responses. A large paving company wanted to buy a couple thousand 4oz pieces for staff Christmas gifts, safety awards and for all of their corporate clients on the holidays. A university with an alumni of about 12,000, would like to see it in their campus store, as an impulse snack purchase, where 4,000 plus students pass through every day, and interest was expressed by a Tourism BC Info centre, to have my product in there building for the tourists, and where I live, tourism is our bread and butter. I live in the Rocky Mountains.

         This is a fantastic product, that needs professional marketing and sales people to take to the marketplace. I have all the skills and capabilities to run the day to day operations of production, packaging, labelling and shipping. I need money to go into production and for the cost of marketing and sales, so I need advice on where to look for financing, and how to attract investors. I also want to hear from people with similar circumstance. It gives me a sense of continuity, knowing I'm not alone.

         In closing, my story is not one of misfortune, so much as it is a lesson. That lesson is that we can do anything we choose to do. We just need to channel our efforts in the right direction, and ask for help when we need it. I don't use my accident as an excuse. If anything, my accident led me to finally do something great! Starting a business that will provide a great product, while creating jobs and a sense of contibution.

         Thank you for reading my little story, and I really look foreward to all sorts of communication. I want to give as much as I get.  

     Sincerely

     Steve K. 

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LINNET  

About LINNET

I am an HIV positive single mother who dropped out of school and the father of my baby does not give us any kind of help. It is so hard for us to eat, dress or even rent a decent house to stay in or afford medical treatment. My baby is not sick and i want to give her a descent life before I die. Is there help for women like us in Africa because I badly need help. My telephon contact is +356773355555

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bonair1  

About bonair1

I dropped out of school back in 1994 to look for a full time job, so that my wife and I could stay together, well 15 years later, I never did find that job. My wife left me for someone in Connecticut and I have never been able to get back to school. Instead I sit here at home on social security Income bored out of my mind. I want so much to go back to school, but as my ex wife and I had consolidated our student loans before she left, it has come back to haunt me in a really big way. When she left she refused to talk to the student loan people about deferring the loan repayment and as I was on SSI I had no money to pay on the loan. As the loan was a joint consolidation and she wouldnt talk to them I was unable to deffer the loans. Now what was a 60k some loan has swollen to a monsterous 160k loan with interest, penalty fees etc. I want to return to school but as the loan is over 100k it disqualifies me from getting any financial aid at all. As I am on SSI I can barely pay my bills let alone try and pay for any of the outrageously rising cost of tuition let alone books. I just wanted to teach or practice law but now all I can do is volunteer down at the local literacy council helping immigrants to learn to read, speak and write english, and watch as they go off to school and better jobs. I just want a life and all I end up with is misery. I have tried 5 times to have the local Job training coprs to help me find a job but each time, all the jobs that I am interested in and have apptitude for are ones that need continuing education. Every day I just sit here and grow more depressed wondering what am I too do? I realize that there are more people out there far more deserving and needy than I but maybe there is someone, somewhere who can give me just one hope of how I can find a way to get back to school to finish my degree and to go on for some post graduate education in either teaching or law. There has to be more than this!

Columbus ohio

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really need your help  

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storm747  

Chance to get $100.00, this is ligit not a scam I know many that have done it

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storm747  

Websites that offers help.

District of Columbia
Website of State agencies of DC
http://www.dc.gov/agencies/index.asp
 
State of Alabama
Website of State agencies, etc. of Alabama
http://info.alabama.gov/directory.aspx?range=2
 
State of Alaska
Website of State agencies, etc. of Alaska
http://www.state.ak.us/local/akdir1.shtml
 
State of Arizona
Website of State agencies, etc. for Arizona
http://www.az.gov/webapp/portal/alpha.jsp?name=agency
 
State of California
Website to all kinds of agencies, etc. in the State of California
http://www.ca.gov/
 
State of Colorado
Website of State agencies, etc. in Colorado
http://www.colorado.gov/colorado/agencies.html
 
State of Connecticut
Website of State agencies, etc. for Connecticut
http://www.ct.gov/ctportal/cwp/view.asp?a=843&q=246466
 
State of Delaware
Website of State agencies, etc. in Delaware
http://http:/www.delaware.gov/egov/portal.nsf/portal/agencylist_dept /
 
State of Florida
Website of State agencies, etc. of Florida
http://dlis.dos.state.fl.us/fgils/agencies.html
 
State of Georgia
Website of State agencies, etc. of Georgia
http://www.georgia.gov/00/topic_index_channel/0,2092,4802_937045,00.html
 
State of Hawaii
Website of State agencies, etc. of Hawaii
http://www.ehawaii.gov/dakine/index.html
 
State of Idaho
Website of State agencies, etc. of Idaho
http://www.accessidaho.org/topical.html
 
State of Illinois
Website to state agencies, etc. in the state of Illinois
http://www.illinois.gov/government/agency.cfm
 
State of Indiana
Website of State agencies, etc. in Indiana
http://www.in.gov/ai/agencylist.ht
 
State of Iowa
Website of State agencies, etc. of Iowa
http://www.iowa.gov/state/main/govagenciesfl.html
 
State of Kansas
Wesite of State agencies, etc. of Kansas
http://www.kansas.gov/government/agency_listing.html
 
State of Kentucky
Website of State agencies, etc. in Kentucky
http://kentucky.gov/Portal/OrgList.aspx
 
State of Louisiana
Website of State agencies, etc. of Louisiana
http://state.la.us/wps/wcm/connect/Louisiana.gov/.../Agency+Index


State of MIssouri
Website of State agencies, etc. of Missouri
http://www.mo.gov/mo/agencies.htm


State of Maine
Website of State agencies, etc. of Maine
http://www.maine.gov/portal/government


State of Maryland
Website of State agencies, etc. for Maryland
http://maryland.gov/portal/server.pt?...&CommunityID=227&PageID=210


State of Massachusetts
Website of State agencies, etc. of Massachusetts
http://mass.gov/?pageID=mg2topic&L=3&L0=Home&L1=State Government&L2=Branch
 
State of Michigan
Website of State agencies, etc. of Michigan
http://www.michigan.gov/som/0,1607,7-192-29701_29702_30045---,00.ht


State of Minnesota
Website of State agencies, etc. of Minnesota
http://www.state.mn.us/govtoffice/index.html


State of Minnesota
Website of State agencies, etc. in Minnesota
http://state.mn.us/portal/mn/jsp/content.do?...&agency=NorthStar&sp2=y


State of Mississippi
Website of State agencies, etc. of Mississippi
http://www.ms.gov/state_agencies_alpha.jsp?Category_ID=16


State of Montana
Website of State agencies, etc. in Montana
http://mt.gov/govt/agencylisting.asp


State of Nebraska
Website of State agencies, etc. for Nebraska
http://www.state.ne.us


State of Nevada
Website of State agencies, etc. of Nevada
http://www.nv.gov/new_departments.htm


State of New Hampshire
Website of State agencies for New Hampshire
http://www.nh.gov/government/agencies.html


State of New Jersey
Website of State agencies for New Jersey
http://www.state.nj.us/deptserv.ht


State of New Mexico
Website of State agencies, etc. of New Mexico
http://www.newmexico.gov/AtoZ.php


State of New York
Website of State agencies, etc. in New York
http://www.nysegov.com/citGuide.cfm?superCat=102&cat=449&content=main


State of North Carolina
Website of State agencies, etc. of North Carolina
http://www.ncgov.com/NCAgency.aspx


State of North Dakota
Website of State agencies, etc. of North Dakota
http://www.nd.gov/agency.htm


State of Ohio
Website of State agencies, etc. of Ohio
http://ohio.gov/agencies.stm


State of Oklahoma
Website of State agencies, etc. of Oklahoma
http://www.state.ok.us/osfdocs/agencies.html


State of Oregon
Website of State agencies, etc. of Oregon
http://www.oregon.gov/a_to_z_listing.shtml


State of Pennsylvania
Website of State agencies, etc. in Pennsylvania
http://state.pa.us/papower/taxonomy/taxonomy.asp?DLN=30107&...


State of Rhode Island
Website of State agencies, etc. of Rhode Island
http://www.ri.gov/government/a_to_z


State of South Carolina
Website of State agencies, etc. in South Carolina
http://www.sc.gov/Portal/OrgList.aspx


State of South Dakota
Website of South Dakota
http://www.sd.gov


State of Tennessee
Website of State agencies, etc. of Tennessee
http://www.tennesseeanytime.org/government/agencies.htm



State of Texas
Website of State agencies, etc. in Texas
http://www.tsl.state.tx.us/apps/lrs/agencies
 
State of Utah
Website of State agencies, etc. in Utah
http://www.utah.gov/government/agencylist.html
 
State of Vermont
Website of State agencies, etc. of Vermont
http://www.vermont.gov/egovernment/agencylist.html
 
State of Virginia
Website of State agencies, etc. of Virginia
http://www.virginia.gov/cmsportal3/government_4096/state_website_list.html
 
State of Washington
Website of State agencies, etc. in Washington
http://access.wa.gov/agency/agency.aspx
 
State of West Virginia
Website of State agencies, etc. of West Virginia
http://www.wv.gov/Pages/agencies.aspx
 
State of Wisconsin
Website of State agencies, etc. in Wisconsin
http://www.wisconsin.gov/state/core/agency_index.html
 
State of Wyoming
Website of State agencies, etc. of Wyoming
http://wyoming.gov/government.asp
 
 
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